1. When considering promoting your services or products, you often feel:
A. Anxious about being seen or judged.
B. Guilty for asking others to invest in themselves.
C. Reluctant to charge what you believe it's worth.
D. Unworthy of attention or success.
E. Concerned about surpassing your family's financial status.
F. Compelled to work harder to prove your value.
2. Your typical response to receiving compliments or praise is:
A. Downplaying your achievements.
B. Redirecting attention to others.
C. Feeling uncomfortable and questioning your worth.
D. Believing you haven't truly earned it.
E. Worrying about outshining loved ones.
F. Thinking you need to achieve more to deserve it.
3. When setting prices for your offerings, you tend to:
A. Avoid discussing pricing openly.
B. Offer discounts or extra services to ease guilt.
C. Undercharge despite the value provided.
D. Feel conflicted due to self-worth issues.
E. Set prices that align with family expectations.
F. Price competitively to validate your hard work.
4. In your professional life, you often:
A. Stay behind the scenes to avoid attention.
B. Prioritize others' needs over your own.
C. Overdeliver to compensate for perceived shortcomings.
D. Seek approval to feel validated.
E. Limit growth to maintain familial harmony.
F. Take on excessive tasks to feel accomplished.
5. Your relationship with money is best described as:
A. Avoidant; you prefer not to focus on it.
B. Generous to a fault, often at your own expense.
C. Scarcity-driven, leading to undercharging.
D. Tied to deep-seated feelings of unworthiness.
E. Influenced by ancestral beliefs and fears.
F. Earned through relentless effort and hustle.
6. When someone offers to pay you generously or give you something…
A. I feel awkward and usually downplay it
B. I immediately feel like I need to return the favor
C. I undercharge or apologize for my price
D. I feel unworthy of it and deflect the attention
E. I feel guilt, like I’m betraying someone
F. I feel like I have to work extra hard to “earn it”
7. The voice in your head says…
A. “If I’m too visible, I’ll be judged.”
B. “It’s selfish to have more when others don’t.”
C. “No one will pay that price.”
D. “I don’t deserve that kind of life.”
E. “My family never had that — who do I think I am?”
F. “If I slow down, it’ll all fall apart.”
8. Receiving money feels…
A. Uncomfortable — I’d rather stay behind the scenes
B. Guilt-inducing — I’m used to being the one giving
C. Difficult — I freeze or discount myself
D. Unsafe — like I’m doing something wrong
E. Disloyal — it creates distance from where I came from
F. Only okay if I’ve “worked hard enough” first
9. What’s your biggest fear around abundance?
A. Being seen too much
B. Being perceived as greedy
C. Being rejected for charging more
D. Not being good enough to hold it
E. Outgrowing your roots
F. Not being able to sustain it without burning out